Love Her Right

Dear Readers,

Do you think its completely rational to leave your girlfriend crying on the phone?
I mean isn't it just too obvious that that's when she needs you most?
That's just fucked up, seriously.

Girls are like flowers, you need to water them everyday, give them love and sunshine in order for them to grow into something beautiful you can enjoy. Or else, they'd eventually wilt.
The view could be pretty amazing I tell you, because once a girl feels loved. .. . There's nothing that can tear her smile down.
But when she's not. You should better start watering like a fire hydrant.
Because when she doesn't feel love, nothing you do will be right in her eyes. Even though its done perfectly, she will find something, do something or just say something to prove you're wrong. When in matter of fact, you're right! But other things you're doing isn't what she's yearning for.
Put her first priority, because for all you know. she could be there giving her all not to fight with you.
But she just can't help as it's the only way you'd listen before she starts wilting any further.

If you really loved her, you'd do something genuinely for her.
And not tell her all the consequences and silly obstacles that you'd have to take just to make her smile.
Because all that you should be wanting is to make her smile, isn't it?
When you look at that mirror, wasn't she the one that put that smile on your face?
Ask yourself, wasn't she there to pick up the pieces when you were upset about something? Wasn't she the one comforting you? every night waiting for you to fall asleep just so you'd know she was there for you.
But no, just asking you indirectly to comfort her is a massive deal for you.
Did you really have to turn the situation and make it all about you? Like how you're not good enough, or that she's different. That she's the one that's always nagging, yelling, screaming and not loving you.
That she's the one that's picking a fight with you.
All she was fighting for was for your attention, which is stupid. Because to be honest, she would put aside anything just to catch a glimpse of you.
But you, no. You make her feel like she's second choice, take her for granted.
Do that, because by the time you know it. She'd be gone in a split second, you never know these complicated creatures called women.
Cherish your time with her, she wont be around forever if you're not taking care of her properly.
Once she's unhappy there's nothing you can say that'll make her happy. All you need to do is, go over there and hold her. Let her know you're there for her, that you'd go through hell just to make her happy. That nothing else mattered besides her.

Listen to her properly, and be graceful when she's upset. Don't just say "oh i fucked up big time"
Think, "what can i do to make her feel better." Because you know you love her.
Letting a girl fall asleep crying every night isn't right. Us girls are angels sent from god, to make one lucky man out there feel special. She's doing all she can to put that grin on your face but sometimes angels do need a little help on feeling loved. Some attention without having to fight for it if it's possible.
Saying you love her just isn't enough now, actions speak louder that words.
So go, do something. Love her properly like how you first began to, just because you've got her doesn't mean you can't loose her.
Like they say, you'll never know what you've got till you loose it.

Make her feel wanted, like how you first wanted her.
Love always,
ESJ
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