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Why hello, I see you've stumbled upon my blog. The name's elianne, 17; living in the wonderful country of malaysia. Please feel free to read, but take note these are all of my opinions and thoughts. much love, ESJ x

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Just Go Will You?

Dear Readers,

If someone says, " Just go will you?" to you what would you do?
90% percent  of people would just leave, but the other 10% wouldn't.
you want to know why?
Now let me tell you.

The mentality of the 90 percentage is that, if someone asks me to leave why would i stay? why would i even contemplate on staying when clearly they have stated that they don't want me around nor do they have doubts of wanting me to stay. So why do i have to be the bigger man and stick around when i'm obviously being pushed away!
Ladies and Gentlemen this is the way the girls brain works.
We're created as a realist, we use our brains most of the time and not our hearts. Girls have an ego in us where most of us think, guys should definitely chase after us. There's a princess in us all where we were grown up to believe if we run out of that door, our knight and shining armor will come as fast as lightning to chase after us and just pick us up and carry us back into the house and pour affection all over us.
And maybe make us a sandwich, well that's my thought.
Common sense is our reality and so we don't flutter in some sort of fantasy world where "Just go will you?" means "Just stay will you?"

Ah but the other 10% are a percentage of the male species.
Not all males are included in this 10% due to them not maturing yet into an Alpha male more commonly known as man. Perhaps some just prefer to stay boys.
So some guys are under the 90% with women.
Yes, man in their mind think "Just go will you?" means "Just stay will you?"
You might think this is stupid, but i've seen it happening.
Some Alpha male just refuse to give up on the girl, because they've realised that that's the girl they're going to make their wife. Eventhought the girl might not even realize yet, but that's the thing.
They will not give up! and that's what a man should be.
Determined, unrelenting and knows what they want. That's what a guy should be like, confident enough to know what they want and just go for it. What have they got to loose anyways right?
Maybe a slap on the face but come on, how hard can a girl hit?
Im sure she's not really trying to hurt you, because every girl likes the attention of a guy wanting them.
Which girl wouldn't love all the attention on them? I mean yeah, she'd be like "no go away" but deep inside she's like "please stay." Girls are cowards and they wont admit it, they expect guys to be some sort of mind reader. Like they say, "women, so complicated."
 But let's just make sure it's positive attention and not those half cooked i just want to fuck you kind of attention.

Not all girls can identify man, because they are fooled and blinded by a boy.
Sure enough to them they say, "omgod meet my man, he's so awesome."
Im not one to say but if I introduce my guy as a boyfriend, it's a well huge deal for me.
I rarely fall for guys but when i do, i fall pretty hard.
So i avoid just to safe myself from the heartache of maybe falling for a boy.
I wish to love a man not a boy.


P.S. I really do love sandwiches goizs.

Love always,
ESJ
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